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Feature in Apartment Guide: Tips to Make Your Partner Comfortable When Visiting

Inland Empire Couples Counseling was recently featured in Jeremy Steckler’s article “18 Tips to Make Your Partner Comfortable When Visiting: How to Make Them Feel at Home” in Apartment Guide, a subsidiary of Redfin.

His article provides tips for making your partner feel at home during their visits, regardless of whether it’s their first time or part of a regular routine. His suggestions come from various relationship experts, including counselors, therapists, and dating coaches.

Key Points

  1. First Impressions Matter: Greet your partner enthusiastically upon their arrival, demonstrating that their presence is your priority.

  2. Consider Your Partner’s Needs: Pay attention to their comfort preferences, such as room temperature, lighting, or specific morning routines.

  3. Dedicated Space: Provide a space for your partner to keep their things, making them feel more at home.

  4. Provide Essentials: Keep spare toiletries and cozy items like a robe to make their stay more comfortable.

  5. Routine Maintenance: Help your partner maintain their usual routines, such as having their favorite breakfast items ready.

  6. Cleanliness: Ensure your space is clean and welcoming. Personal touches can enhance comfort.

  7. Bathroom Focus: A clean bathroom with personal touches can make a significant difference.

  8. Communicate Expectations: Discuss important details and house rules before your partner arrives.

  9. Separate Workspace: Define a specific workspace to avoid mixing work and personal time.

  10. Cozy Bedroom: Make the sleeping area comfortable and personalized.

  11. Love Languages: Cater to your partner’s love language through thoughtful gestures.

  12. Special Notes: Hide notes around your apartment to surprise and delight your partner.

  13. Alone Time Space: Provide a designated area for your partner to have some alone time.

  14. Belonging: Create a sense of belonging through thoughtful gestures and personalized touches.

  15. Food Connection: Stock the fridge with their favorite items and consider cooking together.

  16. Remove Exes’ Mementos: Ensure no reminders of past relationships are visible.

  17. Build the Space Together: Engage in activities that help build and personalize the space together.

  18. Discuss the Future: When ready, talk about future plans and what a shared life might look like.

By following these tips, you can create a welcoming and comfortable environment for your partner, fostering a deeper connections and a sense of belonging.

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