As an LGBTQIA+ individual, finding a couples therapist who is knowledgeable and accepting of your identity is incredibly important. I mean, let's be real, relationships can be complicated enough as it is without having to explain the intricacies of your sex lives or defend your inner workings to a therapist who just doesn't get it. And don't even get me started on the mental health challenges that often come with navigating life as an LGBTQIA+ individual.

That's why it's crucial to find a therapist who is not only accepting of your identities, but who also has experience working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. Trust me, there's nothing worse than sitting in a therapy session with a therapist who just doesn't understand your experiences or who constantly misgenders you. So, if you're looking for an LGBTQIA+ friendly couples therapist, there are a few things you should keep in mind to ensure that you find the right fit for you and your partner.

If you're an LGBTQIA+ individual or couple in Riverside, Murrieta, or anywhere in California, it's important to find a therapist who understands and accepts your identity (like us!). Research therapists in your area who specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples or seek out online couples counseling with licensed therapists experienced in the community. With the right support, you can build a strong, healthy, and fulfilling relationship that honors your unique identities and experiences. Start today by contacting us to book a free 15 minute phone consultation.

Signs of a LGBTQIA+ friendly couples therapist:

There are multiple important factors to keep in mind when looking for an LGBTQIA+ friendly couples therapist.

• You want to look for a therapist who is knowledgeable with specific issues that arise within the community and that are also specific to those who identify as an LGBTQIA+ couple.

• Look for therapists that are open about their sexual orientation, attraction, gender identity and have a no secrets policy as well as willing to discuss your sexuality and your partners (if looking for couples therapists).

• You want to have a therapist that you feel you and your partner can develop an open honest relationship to help with connecting and getting the most out of your therapy.

• You also should not have to explain how your sex life works or feel judged or have to defend yourself or your inner workings with a therapist who already knows and gets it.

• You want a therapist who understands and accepts your identity and has experience as well with working with other gay men, women, and gender diverse persons and is familiar with issues that surround sexuality, gender expression, coming out, mental illness, intersectionality of trauma, self esteem, ptsd and trauma.

• Someone who validates the epistemological privilege that each client and relationship brings into the session (gender expression, sexuality, orientation, trauma, voice, etc.) and be able to affirm the complexities of such within the heteronormative patriarchal society. 

What is also very important is to find someone that creates and knows how important a safe place is for people to be open about their emotions and feelings and being able to work from the lens of the client(s). By making sure that one is also able to find a safe place and safe person it is also to make sure that the therapist you are looking into has connections to the community and has additional connections or support/groups/language built around being LGBTQIA+ friendly/understanding.

If you're an LGBTQIA+ individual or couple in Riverside, Murrieta, or anywhere in California, it's important to find a therapist who understands and accepts your identity. Whether you're struggling with relationship issues, mental health challenges, or simply looking to grow and connect with your partner, finding the right LGBTQIA+ friendly therapist can make all the difference.

That's why we encourage you to take action and seek out the support you need. Start by researching therapists in your area who specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples. Check out their websites and read reviews from other LGBTQIA+ clients to get a sense of their approach and experience.

If you're looking for online couples counseling in California, there are many options available. You can find therapists who offer video sessions, phone sessions, or a combination of both. Just make sure to look for a therapist who is licensed in your state and has experience working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples.

Remember, you deserve a therapist who accepts and celebrates your identity, and who has the skills and experience to help you and your partner thrive. Don't be afraid to reach out and start the process of finding the right therapist for you. With the right support, you can build a strong, healthy, and fulfilling relationship that honors your unique identities and experiences.

At Inland Empire Couples Counseling we offer the best marriage counseling we can! Our couples therapists are trained in helping couples heal from infidelity, substance use in relationships, childhood trauma, communication skills, as well as providing the LGBTQIA+ community with pride counseling. We have online couples counseling in California. We have couples therapy in Riverside, CA. We also have marriage counseling in Murrieta CA or the Temecula Valley. Please reach out for help by clicking the button below to schedule a free 15 minute consultation with our Intake Coordinator.

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